THIS SITE IS DEDICATED ALI OSMAN KHADAR. (A.O.K)

Ali Osman Khadar was born May 13, 1983 first born son of Hawa Lilian Tucker and Mustapha Khadar. He grew up in Lowell, Massachusetts with his younger sister Zainab aka Zai Zai Khadar.

Ali had a rough start as he was hospitalized at an early age but it was then that he first displayed his determination and good spirit. He later was diagnosed with juvenile diabetes at the age of 12. From early on Ali demonstrated that he faced any adversity with an ever present smile.

Ali graduated from Cumberland Valley High School in Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania in 2003. Soon after he attended Harrisburg Community College in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania with a major in business administration.

He moved to Maryland and lived with his father in 2008. Ali was currently about to graduate from Strayer University this summer with a degree in computer science. He was an excellent and hardworking student who took his studies seriously as attested by his professors.

Anyone who knows Ali knows he was one of a kind, a gentle soul with the heart of a lion. He was the type of person who would give you his last. He was always around his family and friends, ready to give you a ride or extend him self in anyway. He was a relaxed real cool guy. His signature response would always be “I’m just chillin’” with a slick smile. He was not only handsome but a real beautiful person on the outside

For any additional information/inquiries please email: AOKhadar@gmail.com

3rd June 2011

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Still thinking about you

I am still thinking about you. I will never forget you. You are truly omissed.

***posted by Cuz Mounirah***

1st June 2011

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Mr. Kevin Lovemaker :)

Well there is alot to say about Ali, but just a few memories, i remember the time that i first met Ali, through my ex-boyfriend, Ali told me that his name was Kevin Lovemaker, we were at Eddies Bar, and he had me and a few others believing that was his real name. UNTIL my ex told me that same night. I remember Ali coming to stay at my house for weekends, and we would party all night and have my mom make us french toast and all kinds of food. He would always eat what i put infront of him and he knew he was always welcome at my house. Ali is definately a ray of sunshine where ever he went! I would pick his butt up at 3/4 am when he was locked out of his sisters house because he forgot his key, and i would bring him back to my house to stay. I remember the one time i went to VA with the ex and he got soooooooo mad at us because he wanted to come to and we actually went on a wim, but he eventually said he wasnt mad. But i remember it distinctly him saying “man thats not cool” lol and we laughed about it afterward. Ali had a special place in my heart. He would always be willing to listen to me rant and rave about his best friend (my ex) and would give me the best advice possible. He never once told me he didnt have time and or he was busy. Ali is a very special person to me. I dont know how I or his family and friends will ever get over this, but i know in my heart that he is in a better place. Its still overly shocking to me when i go to his facebook page and see everything. I dont visit it much because when i do, tears usually follow. Im tearing up now just writting this. But all i know is Ali was a very loved person, whom had friends and family that would do anything for him. He was and IS a beautiful person inside and out, and i will forever cherish the moments and memories we have shared. RIP ALI, gone but never forgotten! See you when i get there! Love you now and always!

***Posted by Ashley***

30th May 2011

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A.O.K

I prayed every night. Everynight for you to be okay.I stayed optimistic.I knew you would come around someday. I knew some thing was up tho.u wouldn’t just run away. I prayed every night. Everynight. For you to be okay. Everytime some ones gone . U wish u were closer. Wish u had more time . But everytime I saw u it was a good time . Your jokes your laughter your smile . I just can’t get over the fact ill never see u again Well .. until I meet u up there . I’m glad your up there

In church that Sunday. I thought of you. I cried for you. Then I smiled for you. I realized you were where you were supposed to be. Ur gold to me. Watch over me.

I’m glad your up there We haven’t lost you . We gained an angel

Rest in perfect peace big cuz. U didn’t deserve to go the way u.did… love you A.O.K I kno you’re A.O.K.

~Nemahun Tucker

29th May 2011

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A lesson for us all family members and friends!

We must always show one another love and respect at all times. We must be UNITED for unity is strength. Try and settle any misunderstanding you may have for another family member or friend. Let us stop meeting only at funerals; keep in touch with others. Life is too short. I bet some of us do not know why Allah (God) put us on this earth! For only ONE reason; to worship Him. Believe in the Oneness of God, keep up with your prayers for it saves you from many evil things. Be kind to your parents; paradise is under your mother’s feet!

May Allah have mercy on us all. May Allah grant us the highest paradise. Ameen.

***posted by Uncle Abdallah***

25th May 2011

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Our thoughts and prayers will alwyas be with you..

It is still difficult to acknowledge that Ali has been buried. We are thankful that he was found. As our family grieves/celebrates life, we are still actively seeking information about what actually happened. It can only help to bring a sense of closure and answer the questions that are deep in our minds and hearts. WHY? HOW? I am a firm believer that Allah (GOD) has a plan for us all, although we cannot understand especially right now. The truth will come out and the person (s) responsible will get what they deserve. I am thankful for all the love and support from everyone, everywhere..it is a testimony to how much Ali is cared for and cares for others. Continue to pray with us and for us. From HIM we come and to HIM we return. Allah yarhamo. Ameen

***posted by Memunah Khadar***

23rd May 2011

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“what i’d give just to hold you close, as on earth…..” <3 Kadija

23rd May 2011

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May God comfort you.

I am praying for the family. I pray you allow God to comfort you.

20th May 2011

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Praying

praying for the family

***posted by Kay Gray***

18th May 2011

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COUSINS are the first friends most people ever have as children. No one will ever understand your crazy family like your cousins. RE-POST if you have some of the BEST cousins in the world!..

my friend posted this on her fb page yesterday and it made me cry. Ali, we wont give up on you. love you “grown man”.

kadija xxo

18th May 2011

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A good hearted person

*** posted by Eugene Hanes Jr***

17th May 2011

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my heart aches!

WE miss you man , come home 

aunty Zahra

17th May 2011

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my heart aches!

WE miss you man , come home 

aunty Zahra

17th May 2011

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TODAY MAKES IT 21 DAYS!……………………AWAY FROM HOME

Dear Ali, Brothers and Sisters:  Today makes it 21 days since you Ali, made that mysterious disappearance out of the place you called your home.  The place you would always came back to when you left to go to school, visit family and friends or just out running errands.  I could hear your father’s voice saying “Ali, are you alright”?  Ali, at this point I am left with no choice but to conclude that you are not ALRIGHT.  Everyone who knows you know that it is out of character for to be gone for so long without calling.   Forget about calling home,  how about calling your sister, your other 1/2, Zainab, and your cousins….we know you are not ALRIGHT, we are running out of THEORIES as to what could have happened to you, we now  believe that something BAD has happened to you.  I know that you are not with any old lady because the only two older ladies you should be with are your grandma in Maryland and the other in Freetown, and we know you are not with them.  SOMEBODY OUT THERE PLEASE HEAR US!!!!  PLEASE HELP US!!!! TIME IS OF THE ESSENCE.  YA ALLAH, you are the ONLY ONE who could expose this person/s before we loose them.  Continue to weigh their hearts with guilt so they can come forward.  I trust that you will do that for us in your HOLY NAME…..AMEEN.   Distraughtly, Aunty Fatma, RI.

15th May 2011

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video games

i remeber when Ali used to blow me out by 20 and i used to say lets switch teams                                                                                 Cousin  Amadou

14th May 2011

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Today is a Brand New Day……The Day After Your Birthday

Good Morning Ali: And happy belated birthday!  Indeed this will be the ideal day to put this turmoil behind us.  We hope that you show up at your home and surprise them as your family and friends gather yet again for another prayer service for your safe return.  We are praying so that any one who has any information about your mysterious disappearance  or anyone who may be involved in any foul play to have a heavy guilt on their mind/s to come forward.  Our hearts are bleeding and we are having dreams that we do not want to remember the next day.  What we are going through is something one sees on television and say to yourself “I wonder what that family is going through” and indeed “I wonder what my brother is going through”.   May Allah continue to give us courage as we go through this horrible dilemma and puzzle. The pieces certainly do not make sense.  Allah we pray that you continue to give the law enforcement officers the wisdom and direction that they need as they go forward seeking information about this mystery.  PLEASE COME HOME ALI, WE MISS YOU AND THAT SOFT SMILE OF YOURS.  ONLY GOD WILL BLESS EVERYONE IN THEIR EFFORTS IN SOLVING THIS MYSTERY.  IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE GRACIOUS, THE MERCIFUL, I CLOSE.  AMEEN! ……Aunty Fatma, Rhode Island.